| By Jonathan Wolf, in honor of his bar mitzvah, with the
assistance of his dad, Burt Wolf, and Rabbi Finkelstein
For years, New York City has not had a reputation for
being the safest city. Recently, the mayor was able to reduce crime. His
method was to put more emphasis on preventing smaller crimes, because if he
could reduce petty theft, he believed it would create greater respect for
the law, which might reduce larger crimes.
Just as Mayor Giuliani focused on the little things in
order to achieve a larger goal, so the Torah asks us to do many little
things to achieve the larger goal, of pleasantness and peace, as stated in
the book of Proverbs, quote "all its ways are ways of pleasantness and
all its paths are peace." (3:17) That’s the big picture. The
Torah helps us reach this larger goal by be caring, kind, and considerate in
the pursuit of peaceful coexistence. The many laws found in my Torah portion
this week are just a small part of reaching this larger goal.
Often, we think of the verse "Love your neighbor as
yourself",
as the golden rule of Judaism, the underlying concern of
all of Judaism. Actually, the author of the Sefer Ha-Chinuch, a
Spanish Medieval work, writes that loving one’s neighbor means not only
pitying the suffering of others, but even being concerned with the loss of
property of others. Rabbeinu Bachya, another Spanish commentator, comments
that loving your neighbor means loving all his property as your own. If we
wish to pursue peace and love our neighbors, we have to start by the mundane
act of caring for their property.
My portion this morning, Ki Teitze, contains a number of
laws which serve as an elaboration of the meaning of caring for our fellow
human beings. My portion mandates that one who builds a new house shall put
a fence around the roof. Failure to do so constitutes a form of bloodshed.
For all you contractors and real estate buffs, this may very well be the
world’s first building code.
My portion makes a number of provisions for the homeless,
the widow, and the orphan. When one shakes an olive tree to reap the olives,
one must leave some for the poor. When one is harvesting the wheat fields
and forgets a bundle, he must leave it for those less fortunate than he.
When a neighbor’s donkey is seen falling, we must unload
it and help it get to its feet. If we see a lost donkey we must return to
its owner even if it is inconvenient. The Torah emphasizes that we cannot
look away from this donkey or hide ourselves from the situation. Rashi, the
well known French commentator says that a man cannot pretend not to notice
the suffering of another. The wording in the Torah actually indicates that
it’s not only that we shall not or should not look away, but that "lo
tu-chal le-hit-ah-lem-
You should not even be physically able to look
away. We should be so sensitized to the needs of others as to not be able to
look away.
It would be hypocritical of us to be indifferent to others
when we always expect others to care about us. Rabbi Schwab, a New York
Rabbi who recently passed away, said, that if we want G-d to hear our
prayers, we can’t turn a blind eye to others.
In the famous Biblical episode, in which G-d asks Cain
where his brother is, Cain replies by asking
"Am I my brother’s keeper?" Apparently, Cain
couldn’t imagine that he was his brother’s keeper, and yet in so many
ways, we are.
The author of the Sefer Ha-Chinuch writes that the
whole health of a society rests on this sense of trust, on the notion that
if someone found my property, he would return it. In this way, a person can
rest assured that wherever his or her property is, it is in good hands, it
is only a phone call away from being in your hands.
There are times when we don’t care as much as we should
about the property or suffering of others. But there are 2 types of
indifference, rationalized indifference, and complete indifference. Few
people are so bad as to be completely indifferent. We all wish we could help
others. Most of us rationalize our indifference. We feel that we would care,
would take action, if only we had time, if only it were more convenient. As
President Kennedy once said, "the deepest place in hell is reserved for
those people who in time of moral crisis claim to be neutral."
Nobel prize winner Eli Wiesel, recently said at a White
House conference on the Holocaust that "indifference is not only a sin.
It is a punishment." If everyone in society is indifferent, ultimately,
each citizen will suffer from this callous environment. In the words of our
first lady, in order to create a village, we must care, even about lost
donkeys, shaky fences, the widow and the poor.
The lofty Biblical goal is to love your neighbor as
yourself. The challenge is to translate this vital value into action. We
have to turn the ancient pages of the Bible and the Talmud into action.
But, you may ask, how much impact can I really have
on society? I am just one citizen of the world. In the Talmudic work,
Ethics of the Fathers, Rabbi Tarfon states that "The task in not yours
to complete, but you are not free to exempt yourself from it." Each
little bit counts. Through each of the little acts of kindness in which we
engage, we get closer and closer to the goal of creating a peaceful,
pleasant society. No one person can do it by himself. Society depends on
each one of us to make it the place we would all like it to be, our own
little village, a caring village, a village in which each of us does his
share to make it our home. |