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Purim Dilemmas

1. Should the Jews come to Achashverosh's party for all of the people of Shushan?

2. Is it wrong to show off one's handsome boy friend or gorgeous girlfriend?

3. What should Achashverosh have done when Vashti refused to show to his party?

4. Is it O.K. to have beauty pageants (let's assume they could be organized in which people would dress modestly)?

5. Is it O.K. for Mordechai to allow Esther to be taken to a pageant?

6. Mordechai told Esther not to reveal her nationality. Was that proper?

7. Should Esther have tried to win or lose the contest?

8. When Mordechai got wind of a plot against Achashverosh, why did he tell Esther to tell Achashverosh instead of telling the king himself? If this was the way to do it, why did Esther give credit to Mordechai?

8. Was it proper not to bow to Haman?

9. Mordechai tells Esther that if she tries to hide and let the Jews go down the tubes, the Jews will be saved anyway, and she and her house will be lost. How did he know that?

10. Why did Esther order that all the Jews fast for 3 days, as would Esther before trying to talk to Achashverosh?

11. Mordechai told Esther to go ask Achashverosh for mercy for her people. When Esther gets in front of Achashverosh, she just asks him for a party, and when at the party, he asks what she wants, she just invites him to another party. Only at the third party did Esther tell the king what her problem was, and she doesn't even explicitly say what he should do about it. ( In the mean time, Haman was forced to honor Mordechai for saving the kingdom.) Why didn't she do it Mordechai's way?

12. Why did Mordechai and Esther institute that people should give gifts to the poor and food packages to each other? What does that have to do with Purim?

13. Haman  made his lot on the 13th of  Nissan. When Esther asks for a 3 day fast, the rabbis tell us it must have been on the 14th, 15th and 16th of Nissan, which includes the Yom Tov of Pesach. Was it right to fast on Yom Tov?

14. When all the Jews heard about Haman's decree, they all mourned and fasted, and they gave out sack cloths to Jews to mourn. All Esther was worried about was that Mordechai was walking around in sack cloth. Was she properly clued in to what was going on?

15. Charvonah spoke up in defense of Mordechai after he saw that Haman was doomed. Was he an oportunist or a true friend of the Jews?

Please depict each of these questions in your own way.